期待以久的小夫對戰王聰明，終於來了。這次PTS很快的採用米國2008大選Youtube人民質問候選人的模式搞了一場公民提問辯論會，比以往的辯論形式更讓人期待，更多民眾切身議題直接挑戰候選人，「ㄞˋ歹完」怎能不看呢。

好不容易等到台灣時間下午兩點半，上網看現場直播。不過不知是海底電纜有問題還是宿網超載還是PTS塞車，整個辯論會就是lag不斷，加上候選人準備素質不佳，看完上半場就覺得無趣，睡覺去了。

整體來講，王聰明保持一貫在多啦A夢裡頭的無敵形象，讓小夫相形見絀。從政治光譜來看，王聰明明顯走右派路線，講求開放、發展與國際化，並在其上建築夢想。只是那個夢，大多是異化掉的金錢夢。面對大多數產業與發展議題時，小夫面臨到各國左派政黨所必然面臨到的獻金與理想的兩難，從他講到賭場開放時的尷尬表情，就看得出來。

雖然說最後的互相詰問更刺激，但這場辯論精采的是提問者的表現。每個提問都非常有當代價值，而大多數的追問也都十分精采。例如「減碳vs.政治現實」、「農地變更」、「中央與地方衝突」、「國土復育政策執行成效」、「特殊家庭生育政策」、「中共打壓下的外交政策」(19歲小女生問的!)。

講對方優點那題，兩人明顯都在奸詐耍花招，只說對方那種枝微末節的「長處」，而不是優點。王聰明棉裡帶針，小夫也是笑裡藏刀(只是刀鋒太短，時間還沒到就講完了)。很可惜其實兩人都是才人，卻因為小小一個選舉制度就被扭曲成這樣的陰森怪物，那些抬轎的多少也該負點責任。

最後的結論，小夫還是輸了，雖然小夫說得很對。王聰明得分是因為他造了夢、賣夢。雖然說夢不能當飯吃，畢竟有夢最美希望相隨。八年前大雄給了大家夢，大雄贏了；現在王聰明給大家夢，王聰明自然贏面大。國際局勢險惡，苦是逃不了的，可以作個美夢的基本人權，是該被維護的。一直到辯論會我才知道，原來小夫還在罵王聰明不是歹丸郎，王聰明也在指責小夫貪貪貪，要是我整天夾在這種口水惡臭中，我也會夜夜被歹丸沉入口水海峽的惡夢給驚醒。

I just came from the "in her shoes" workshop.
It's a role-playing card game.
There are about a dozen of "stations" that an abused women may go through, such like "family and friends", "support group", "police", "hospital", "clergy", "job", "housing", etc.
The stations were set around the room.
Colored cards were put in every station, the story the women experienced at that station would be written on the colored card.
All the story begins at the station called "harm start here".
Player who goes to "harm start here" station will get a bandit on her/his hand. The more you get harm, the more bandit you have.
At the end of the card, there are two choice for "player", each choice directing to a specific next station.
The cards in the same color belong to a certain woman.
Sometimes, the cards would direct each other so that the woman suffers in a vicious circle.
There are three "special" stations.
One is "forgive and forget". Every story doesn't end here, because choices are put in the end of the card in this station.
Another is "WILD", which means a chance from other resource than the ordinary "supports".
The other one is "funeral". No card is put here, a pair of sandals instead.

After the "game", the speaker organized a discussion.
Here are some issues, which are similar to the situation in Taiwan.
Physicians would rather ignore women's cause of injury, despite highly suspecion on domestic violence.
The legal protection is tricky, not a safe help for women who try to call for help from legal system.
Domestic violence is not limited to women with low socioeconomic status; abused women in the higher "classes" have more resources to run and rather not report the events.
Family and friends are not necessarily a good resources. If they are not sensitive on this issue, they could ignorantly push the women into the dark again.
Emotional threathening is still not regarded as a reason for admission to shelter.
Domestic violence is not limited only to men hurting women, but also youth hurting elderly, women hurting men, and between same-sex partners.

The speaker discussed a little about power and domestic violence.
Domestic violence can be seen as the abuser's action to "take control" or to "announce power".
In addition, men is not only bigger in size and stronger than women, they are also much more "skillful" in fighting.
Men fight since they are little; women just grow up.

This is an important view for thinking how to make a difference.
In a society that support you with power, you will feel it's correct to exert your power on other people.
Thus, to prevent the event of domestic violence, a society that really support equal right is essential.

Moreover, I speculate nutrition is a good method for women's empowerment.
Nutrition education in underprevileged women may enable them powerful on some issues at home.

"In Her Shoes" is an interactive training exercise developed by the Washington Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The exercise allows participants to become a character, a battered woman, and follow her story. The exercise helps participants understand the difficult decisions, the barriers to help, and the emotional rollercoaster victims of domestic violence face as they seek safety for themselves and their children. The House Of Ruth has provided this training at conferences all over the state of Maryland. More than other types of workshops, "In Her Shoes" gives every participant an experience to talk about and share. Men and women are welcome to attend!

We would be more than happy to have you at the "In Her Shoes" workshop, whatever your language skills. I will put you down as a "yes" for attending, but please feel free to think about it. I hope to see you there!

不管你的語言能力如何，我們都很高興你來參加工作坊。我會先把你放在參加名單中，不過若你想再考慮看看也沒關係。希望到時能見到你。